12+ things i did before turning 35
Friday, January 25th, 2008in 1999, i first heard a radio ad for the Binibining Pilipinas beauty pageant. the announcement rattled off various qualifications and ended with “not older than 25 years old”. oh my, i’m no spring chicken! at 26, i slid down the slippery slope towards OLD.
the remaining years of my 20s turned out to be great times though. i clocked in 10-20 work hours a day but also reconnected with friends i largely ignored during law school, explored the philippines, read more milan kundera and salman rushdie, and discovered a passion for interior design. now, years later and about 20 pounds heavier, i look back at the things i did before approaching another milestone of sorts…
- january 2007 - panic. “what, i’m turning 35 next year?!!”
- february - boycotted valentine’s day, on mutual agreement with hubby.
- march - business as usual at the salt mines: training in manila for asia-pac colleagues.
- april - business as usual at the salt mines (cont.): prepared for meetings and long trip in april-may.
- may - revisited the fabulous impressionist collection of the Chicago Art Institute. saw the famous dinosaur Sue at the Field Museum.
- june - returned to manila to teach legal research to law students (my third year to teach). joined a thesis defense panel for the first time.
- july - bought brand-new car without knowing how to drive.
- august - actually learned to drive my car, weee! (yes, i’m 15 to 20 years too late on this indispensable skill!)
- september - climbed the Great Wall at Badaling in Beijing. paid homage to Chairman Mao at Tiananmen Square. wore out shoes touring the Imperial Palace. spotted the “bubble building” and other Olympics edifices. made new friends among asia-pac colleagues.
- october - got my first taste of Europe via London. floored by the art collections at the Tate Modern and National Art Gallery. ate a veal burger at Burrough Market with best friends. saw Shakespeare’s Globe Theatre.
- november - drove car to office on my own for the first time. very liberating, very “thelma & louise”, minus the tragic ending and brad pitt.
- december - bravely went on first two-week break from work. did not need to put out any fires, thankfully. my first car accident: hit a stubborn parking driveway post that failed to avoid me. on a happier note, celebrated 5th wedding anniversary! 2 dozen lilac roses marked the occasion.
- jan. 2008 - instead of throwing a birthday party, recruited volunteers for mural-painting session at Asilo orphanage.
and yes, i revived my blog before turning 35. it’s comforting to know my brother will always be 5 years older than me. :-) raise a glass of cabernet sauvignon for me, please!
marian
beijing & london:
at Asilo: